Flirting is like a sport, it takes a while to master
and properly develop. Men are confusing
creatures and sometimes don’t notice all the
ways that women flirt.
If you don’t make the opposite s*x aware that
you are flirting, there is a good chance they’ll
have no idea. Here are the top 10 ways women
flirt with men that they don’t notice. After all,
some men can be a little clueless.
1. Body Language
Body language is difficult for some men to
understand. One would think that ‘crossing and
uncrossing your legs’ is a pretty obvious flirting
method, especially if you’re wearing a pair of
really high heels. It’s a very sexy approach, but
some men are too insensitive to realize its
considered flirting! If you flirt using body
language, you should think of a different
approach that all men pick up on. Try a method
that involves body contact, like brushing his
arm if he makes a funny joke.
2. Twisting Your Hair
Men are usually in their own world. If they see a
pretty girl, they notice her, but they don’t
always pay attention to all the details. Using
your hair to be flirtatious is something that men
usually aren’t aware of. This can come across
as a nervous twitchy habit, instead of
something that’s sexy. You don’t need to
constantly run your fingers through your hair to
get a man’s attention just smile.
3. Freshening up
Not many men notice every little detail about a
woman. If they did, we wouldn’t love them as
much as we do. If you go to the bathroom to
brush your hair halfway into a conversation,
they won’t notice. Put as much effort into your
appearance as you want before you meet them
but it’s better to focus your energy on making
great conversations. Save the hair brushing for
when you get home.
4. Winking
If you wink at a man, he might think you have a
tick. It will get his attention but it won’t leave
him thinking you are a sultry seductress.
Winking isn’t something that a woman should
do. Friends can wink at ladies, but if you want
to flirt with a man, don’t wink at him.
5. Laughing At Everything He Says
Laughing can be a great way to flirt – who
doesn’t love that ego boost of meeting
somebody that finally “gets it.” But if you are
speaking to a man and you laugh at everything
he says, you’ll only confuse him aside from
coming off just plain silly. He’s going to wonder
what’s actually so funny.
6. Trying To Make Him Jealous
One terrible way to flirt with someone is to try
to make them jealous. Immature men or drama
kings may pick up on this, but the mature ones
will see right through it. Besides, most guys are
too stupid to realize you’re trying to make them
jealous. So step up your game and act your
age. Using jealousy as a flirting tactic is for
children.
7. Keep The Compliments To Yourself
Compliments are like alcohol. They are good in
moderation but disastrous in excess. You can
compliment a guy on his outfit but you don’t
need to tell him how hot he is 10 times. Plus,
chances are if you compliment someone as a
way of flirting, they will most likely just think
you are just being nice. Come up with a more
obvious way of flirting that even clueless men
will notice.
8. Facebook Flirting
In today’s day and age, Facebook has become
a way to meet people. Its a sad fact, but true. If
you send someone a flirty message on
Facebook, they most likely wont realize that
you are flirting with them. Some people don’t
check their messages or they don’t always
respond. Don’t send flirty messages like you’re
scared. Save the flirting for real life.
9. Chomping on Your Gum
Chewing gum isn’t sexy. If you try to be s*xual
with your gum to pick up a guy, he will most
likely think something is wrong with you. Gum
chewing should be saved for your guy friends
not to impress a man you like.
10. The Goodnight Text
Sending someone you are casually dating a
goodnight text isn’t flirting, its just needy. They
will view you as a typical girl instead of
thinking you are flirting with them. Save your
flirting for in person meet-ups, it’ll be much
more effective than a text message.
Okay ladies, now you are clued into some
techniques that men don’t consider flirting. So,
don’t waste your time sending out the wrong
signals. Men don’t notice them. Get out there
and get your flirt on with that man you admire!
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